Over a decade ago, my wife and I agreed on how we wanted to pursue our respective career paths. We laid out where we currently were and where we wanted to go, what were the opportunities, and how we are going to pursue them. The plan we hatched involved being away from each other for most of the year. At that point in our lives, we felt this was our final chance to run as fast as we can with regard to our careers, that we needed to pursue exponential career growth while it is still just the two of us in our family. As soon as we finalized our plans, God blessed us with an unexpected news--we were having a baby. I could not remember exactly what words were said when we learned about my wife’s pregnancy, but I can still recall how non-jubilant we were with the news. The mood was somber at best. It was not in our plans. We had other plans.