Psychological illness is not an element for emotional abuse

Dear PAO,

My relationship with my husband turned topsy-turvy when I found out about his extramarital affairs with different women. The first time I caught him was just two months after our marriage. He ended his affair with that woman, but after several months, he was again involved with another one. This cycle kept on repeating, and I think that I am already emotionally abused and depressed. I cannot sleep and have no appetite to eat. I complained against him before our barangay. During our meeting, he denied that his affairs were the cause of my emotional anguish, and he also claimed that I should have been psychologically ill in order for him to be liable for emotional abuse. Is he correct?